Thursday, 7 April 2016

Friendships Ending!

Hey Lovelies, hope your all having a good day. Today I've got a bit more of a personal post about friendships ending.

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I think we've all had friendships break up and sometimes they can be really hard and others you both just grow apart and just end up not speaking anymore.

I've always seemed to have friendships ending more often than not it's just we grew apart and gradually just stop speaking to each other. I've always been the type of person that tries to keep in contact with people and keep the friendship going but usually the person doesn't seem interested and they've changed.

Only last year I had a friendship end, which was really stupid and we haven't spoke since. I was always there for this friend, whenever they rang or needed me I was always there, they weren't there for me much really and only got in touch when they needed something. They wanted me to go out for their birthday they only asked a week in advance and I already had plans with my boyfriend and I didn't want to let either of them down, so I tried to comprise and she wouldn't have it. She was just really horrible in the end about it and we haven't spoke since which is probably for the best. I realised after that this wasn't a proper friendship and it was more of me putting the effort in than they were and it was one sided. I think before this happened I tried to keep hold of the friendship because we were close before and did things together and I wanted it to stay that way but it didn't.

What I've really realised is that it is okay for friendships to end and you don't need lots of friends. I only have a few friends now and we don't always get chance to speak or see each other but we still make the effort even if we are busy and they are true friends. I'm happy with the friends that I do have and the people in my life that are always there for me.

If your in a friendship that your not happy with or they aren't treating you right, then you should do what you think is best for you, I would say first try talking to them about it and see if you can fix it but if you think ending the friendship is best, it will be okay. You don't need negative friends bringing you down, you need positivity and people who are there for you.

What are your feelings on friendships ending?


  1. It's taken me a while to realise that some friendships just aren't made to last and for some reason I'm just not the type of person to have tons of close friends, I can't be doing with the catty behaviour and backchat that comes with it and I'm ok with that.

    Emma |

    1. Yeah I totally agree with you, I like having the friends I do have and I know they'll be there for me x

  2. Going through this at the moment :( Enjoyed the post, it's reasurig to know others experience it too

    1. I'm sorry to hear that hun but you'll get through it and it does happen to most of us, I'm here if you need to talk x